coppied posts on taking it.

I've been told this several times before and this does hild. But one factor that does hinder the process is the mental factor. When someone rapes your arse, it can cause alot of mental blocking. I know for a fact that my partner and I are having trouble with this becauce a previous "daddy" ram-rodded me and caused alot of damage down there. because of this, I tighten up, even after my partner has worked me down there.

(If I am practicing for a man to fuck me, I need at least three fingers.
The second finger is pretty easy. It is the third that opens up the hole
as a circle, and that does take practice and lube. Work on speed and
comfort for getting three fingers spreading open your back door to invite
gentleman in. There is so much blood in the loins when guys are getting
it on, horny guys are stupid. I know I am, lost in lust. And a horny
guy who has been licking my bubble butt hole just wants to get his cock
in there. Being a slut, I want that too. I have the three finger rule
which is simple enough for me to follow when I am swimming in the sounds
and smells of sex: a three finger fuck before cock up the ass. It is
clear when your man wants to enter you, reaching for a condom is the
yellow flag. If no finger have opened the door, and he is rolling the
condom down his glorious hard tool, one you recently swallowed all the
way down to the base, you need to get those three lubed fingers up there
fast. It is just a skill, there is no magic. Lube and go one, two,
three. Do not be afraid of opening it too much: you can and will be
clamping down on him once he enters. I may try following the four finger
rule. It is like this. If the first time he positions himself to move
into you, he does slide in with easy, and you feel not the slightest
pain, you are going to have a great anal sex session. I know I can do a
three finger fuck from a dry, tight hole in under twenty seconds. I have
timed it. This is a fun game to practice. Having this skill gives you
great confidence: if he forgets to open you up, then while he is
packaging his sword in a condom, you can be opening your hole up wide
enough to take him.

My dildo session evolve the same way. Once that third finger in and
opening that tight hole, I feel the need to fill that hole with cock. It
is SO exciting to have a cock head pressed right up against the lubed and
slippery hole. It takes a little pressure to get in. How much pressure
depends on how well the fingers have prepared the hole for the job. It
is really great when it require little pressure, and you can focus on the
feeling of being full of cock. This feeling is different from anything
you can do with your own cock. What I like so much about it is you can
see a man being as manly as a man can get, he is fucking. You feel his
rhythm of fucking, how his fucking changes as he fucks you more. There
is too much to keep track of, but in my confused fucked bitch state, I
try and do a few things. I like to kiss and lick my man as he pounds me,
if possible. You can tell how much effort he is putting into you. I try
to remember to keep clamping down on his driving cock. I tighten my
hole, my abs, my arms, so he knows he is fucking a strong man. Sometimes
I need to relax, just look around, look down and see his hips driving
into me, so hot, it gets me to kiss him again.

See, that's what happens when I work my dildo, I think explicitly about
how men have fucked me, what I like about having men fuck me. It is all
about getting the mind very ready to be fucked, practicing the mechanics,
so when the guy goes for the condom, you know what to do to enjoy it.
Once I have a dildo up the ass, I don't last too long. There is an
important difference in how I cum: I create almost twice the volume of
cum. The internal prostrate message gets the prostrate to work overtime.

Sometimes I read in sex ads that a guy new to all this very stimulating
stuff wants to find another first timer. Not a good idea. Sex requires
technique, man 2 man sex requires more technique, so someone in the room
should know from their sexperience what to do. The two rookies would
have lots of energy, but the awkwardness could kill the coupling. Much
better would be to find a veteran top. Avoid guys who say they are
"total tops" which translates to a guy who fucks without listening. Find
an older guy who is out. They love to demonstrate how the deed between
two men is done. They can be very understanding with your confusion over
how strong your desire to get laid can be. Of course they will take
advantage of that and fuck you, but that is what you both want.

If you practice, you really can enjoy taking it.)

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